Let’s face it guys…everyone wants the sex to be great every time, and part of that is adding creativity in the bedroom. That’s why we’ve put together this list of gay sex positions. Some are tried and true standbys, while other gay sex positions might be new to you and your partner. By switching things up you’ll not only add spice to your sex life, but added pleasure for you and your man.
Gay sex positions are basically broken down into the following categories:
Rear Entry
Rear Entry
Side
Sitting
Missionary
While the above are pretty standard, there are variations to each that will allow you and your partner to experience new sensations and new heights of orgasmic bliss.
Rear Entry A.K.A. Doggy…
Doggy – Doggy is the most recognizable of the rear entry positions and consists of both partners being on their knees and the top entering him from behind. The Doggy gay sex position is great for guys with a downward curved penis, as the angle allows for more prostate stimulation for the partner.
Variations on the Doggy include…
The Greyhound – The Greyhound is basically the Doggy but with one small twist. Instead of the bottom having his legs on the outside of his partners, he keeps them together while his lover tops him.
The Pillow Biter – The bottom lies flat on his stomach with his ass raised slightly in the air or with a pillow under him. While this doesn’t allow for the deepest of penetrations, the head play is stimulating to both partners.
Standing…
The Standing gay sex position is great when you have two partners of the same height or if the bottom is slightly taller. The basic gay sex position for standing sex is to stand with the bottom facing the wall with their legs slightly apart and knees slightly bent. The top then proceeds to penetrate from behind. Many couples choose to have the bottom place one leg on a chair or sofa arm for easier access and to allow for deeper penetration.
Variations on the Standing gay sex position include…
The Swing – this is for the TRULY acrobatic. The top hangs from a bar or another safe device that he can hold onto. He then places his legs over his partner’s shoulders. The top holds up the bottom’s ass and guides his cock into it. This one is more advanced and requires arm strength. If you fatigue sets in, the bottom can rest his back against a wall and wrap his legs around his top.
The Flying High – again, try this only if the top is in good physical condition and can support the bottom’s weight. The top enters the bottom from the front. The bottom wraps arms and legs around the top, who then proceeds to lift him in the air. The top is basically supporting all of the bottom’s weight, so it is important to keep knees bent.
Missionary…
Ah mish. This is where the bottom lies on his back and the top enters him, often lying on his bottom. While some say missionary is boring, it does allow for eye contact and kissing, and with a few tweaks you can go from ho-hum to hubba hubba. Missionary is also good for someone with an upward curved penis.
Variations on the Missionary gay sex position include…
The Crab – While lying on their back, the bottom pulls his knees up and holds them out, opening himself up to his top. This allows for the anus to become more fully open.
The Tree – While the bottom is on his back, the top places the bottom’s left leg on his right shoulder or vice versa. This allows for deep penetration without breaking that sexy eye contact.
The Deep Anal – The bottom lies on the edge of the bed or on another surface such as a tabletop or counter that is level or slightly lower than his partner’s cock. While standing in front of his bottom, the top grabs the bottom’s legs and hooks them over his arms, spreading and holding the bottom’s legs as he strokes away.
The Double Y A.K.A. Pile Driver – the bottom has his shoulders pinned to the floor. He can either be resting against a bed or couch for support, or the top stands above him, spreads and holds the bottom’s legs out, and enters him…allowing the bottom to rest his body against the top while he pistons in and out.
Side…
The side gay sex position is great for waking up and getting a little morning action. The bottom lies on his side and the top lifts the bottom’s top leg, allowing for penetration.
Variations on the Side gay sex position include…
Spoon – Spooning is total contact and is perfect for when you want to cuddle and make slow sweet love. The bottom lies on his side and the top does as well, pulling the bottom toward him and throwing his leg up to allow entry.
The Bed Corner – The bottom lies on his side with his butt on the corner of the bed. You could also use a table or other sturdy surface. While standing or kneeling, the top enters his man and plunges away.
Sitting…
The sitting gay sex position pretty much says it all. It’s where the bottom literally sits on his partner’s penis during sex.
Variations on the Sitting gay sex position include…
Cowboy – The bottom sits on the top’s penis and faces him. This allows for intense eye contact, nipple play, and the top can always masturbate his bottom as he rides him.
Reverse Cowboy – The bottom sits facing away from the top and rides his man like a stallion.
Sitting Bull – The bottom sits on the top’s penis, as the top lies flat on back, however the bottom sits sideways instead of facing towards or away from his partner like in the cowboy position.
Scissor – the bottom sits as in the cowboy position and then slowly lays back to where both the top and bottom slightly recline on their elbows. The bottom experiences increased prostate stimulation from the angle of penetration.
The Crow – This is a take on the Reverse Cowboy position. Instead of just sitting upright, the bottom lies back against the top’s stomach, who holds the bottom’s legs apart and helps move him up and down.
Yin & Yang - The top sits up and then the bottom sits in his lap, wrapping his legs around the top’s back. This creates the greatest sense of intimacy, eye contact and kissing opportunities while having sex.
Whatever gay sex position you try, always make sure to use plenty of lube, have an open mind, and do what feels good for you and your partner!
