The Key To Explosive Male Orgasms? Stimulating The Prostate!

Orgasms - explosive, earth shattering, body shaking orgasms. Think only women get them? The truth is men can have the most intense orgasms of their lives by stimulating a hidden little gem known as the prostate or “P-Spot.”

The prostate is a walnut sized gland located a couple of inches inside the male body. It sits just behind the pubic bone in front of the anus. When sexually aroused, the prostate swells and if stimulated by touch, can produce incredible climaxes. In fact, it’s possible for a man to achieve orgasm just by prostate stimulation alone.

The main thing during prostate stimulation is to get to know your body, go slow, be open minded, and most of all relax and have fun.

The first thing you want to make sure of before stimulating the prostate is to have plenty of lube on hand. A lube designed for anal play is a preferred choice, but any good quality lubricant will work.

Start by lying on your back, bending your knees, and raising your buttocks. (Placing a pillow underneath is a comfortable way to keep things up in the air.) Lube up a finger and then gently massage your anus to help relax the muscles. When you feel comfortable insert your finger into your rectum. The prostate is approximately two inches inside the anus. You can then slide your finger in and out in a thrusting motion, or use a steady pressure on the prostate. The main goal here is to become used to the sensations and find out what is comfortable and works for you.

While you are exploring the prostate, you may choose to masturbate or have your partner stimulate you.

As you become more familiar, you may also want to become more adventurous and introduce sex toys into the mix. Besides fingers, the addition of a vibrator, dildo, butt plug or toys specifically designed for prostate stimulation can vastly intensify the “P-Spot” orgasm. As with fingers, remember the lube and take it slow in the beginning.